Not sure what I did to earn this, but the wonderful A Kinder Way has yet again nominated me for a blogging award, and who am I to contradict? The rules for this one are very simple…
- Thank the person that nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
- List the rules.
- Display the award on your post.
- List seven facts about yourself.
- Nominate (up to) 15 bloggers for this award and comment on one of their posts to let them know you have nominated them.
Nominations to follow my factoids, though I stress there is no pressure on anyone I name. I’d happily award you all in exchange for no intimate information whatsoever if I was the one setting the rules…
My 7 Facts…
- I hated school. With a passion. And a burning vindictive hatred to demolish the rotten place a la Bart Simpson. Being trans did not help, clearly (although I wasn’t “out” – just obviously effeminate, which was good enough for the bullies). Mainly, though, it was just for being the highest concentration of petty-minded little jobsworths and sadists I have ever had the displeasure of spending several years in the company of. And it does not seem to have materially improved my job prospects.
- I loved university, though. I would go back there in a flash. Sadly I can’t, as that place did not improve my job prospects either…
- In my former identity I used to make little games for the C64 8-bit computer. One of them, like so much of my fiction, had quite a lot of loosely-disguised transness in it, including a spell that transformed a squad of orc archers into a harmless swarm of fairies (not that orc gender or lack of has ever been definitively established). No-one noticed those touches, though, as the game itself was just too difficult and annoying for frustrated players to pay any attention to my encoded trauma. The moral? Always playtest thoroughly.
- I love to cook, and I often cook very spicy food. I am informed it can be quite painful to be within breathing distance of one of my meals… I hate eating processed food, and have had so little of them for so long that small amounts now give me painful cramps.
- I met my husband at the wake of someone neither of us even knew. I can’t even remember why I was there in the first place (Possibly I was invited as moral support).
- He then asked me out on social media, but did not post an avatar. Since we were both painfully shy, I completely failed to locate him at the chosen venue, and ended up leaving in confusion.
- Thankfully, a mutual friend then basically pushed us at each other and forced us to start talking, and there has been no looking back since. ❤ ❤ ❤
Nominations (love you all)…
Well done! It is a kick ass blog ! 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you. I try my best. 🙂 ❤ xxxxx
LikeLike
I loved my C64! Me and my sister used to particularly enjoy ‘Flimbo’s Quest’ X
LikeLiked by 2 people
You and your sis had good taste. 🙂 That game was a stunning bit of programming. I have seen many a 16-bit game that neither looked nor sounded as good. A pity it never got all that much credit for it.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It had a catchy wee tune too! X
LikeLiked by 1 person
The reason I picked your blog is because I think it’s Lovely and I think you’re Lovely and I any time that I can share that with others I intend to! 😉
The story about you and your husband is great.
My husband and met through a mutual friend who worked really hard to get us together as well.
I guess we are both lucky to have pushy friends! 😉
LikeLiked by 2 people
Sadly we have lost touch with the friend in question. I would love to meet them again and tell them all about our marriage and where it has led (Curiously, they too were transgender, but they had no idea about either Cal or me at the time).
LikeLiked by 1 person
Same with us, We lost touch years ago right after we got married. She was actually my friend (met as adults) and Steve was friends with her brother growing up.
Funny (and sometimes sad) how someone that was so instrumental to our lives can disappear.. Maybe you will meet up again some day! 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person